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Does penis size matter?
Some say yes, some say
no. It is a matter of
continuing controversy.
Men and women argue this
point, and magazines
have frequent articles
on this subject.
Sometimes size simply
does matter, however.
Gina from Los Angeles
has this to say:
"I have been dating a
man who I think is
wonderful. We have so
much in common, and
everything is great. The
problem is that when we
have intercourse, I
can't feel his penis
inside of me. There is
also no contact with my
clitoris. It doesn't
matter how long he goes,
I can't feel his cock.
With other partners, I
can reach orgasm within
a couple of minutes, but
he is so small, I just
can't. I feel
embarrassed going on
about specifics, but his
penis is about 4 1/2
inches long and very
thin. I try to tell
myself that it doesn't
matter, but the fact is
that I deserve to have
good sex and to have
orgasms.
Not only can I not come,
but I am worried that he
can't feel much either,
which makes me feel like
less of a woman with
him. I don't know what
other women do in this
situation, but I'm
confused and upset. This
guy and I get along so
well, and everything is
so great, but the sex is
so unsatisfying. What
can I do?"
WHAT CAN SHE DO?
There are a few things
they can try, but
unfortunately first she
has to be able to tell
him what the problem is
- and that is bound to
be uncomfortable, and to
put a strain on their
relationship. Can you
imagine how difficult it
would be for a woman to
tell a man she cares
about that she can't
feel his penis during
sex?
After they have talked
about the problem, they
can talk about solutions
so that Gina receives
the sexual stimulation
she needs to feel good
about their physical
relationship. There are
penile extenders
available at most sex
toy shops, or they can
be bought online. There
are small vibrators
designed to stimulate
the clitoris during
intercourse or at other
times. Her boyfriend can
use a vibrator and
masturbate or perform
oral sex before or after
intercourse.
THERE ARE EFFECTIVE
METHODS OF PENIS
ENLARGEMENT TECHNIQUES
AND PROGRAMS.
First off, there is
surgery, but that is
expensive and intrusive.
Most men would not
willingly undergo
surgery, nor should a
woman ask it. Then there
are mechanical
enlargement techniques
such as penis pumps and
stretching rings. These
can have some effect,
but can also weaken and
tear the delicate tissue
of the penis. Some doubt
that these pumps can be
effective, and there are
differing opinions as to
whether such mechanical
techniques work.
There are also exercises
like the jelq and some
special kinds of
stretching. These
exercises can have some
effect, but require both
knowledge and regular
effort. Penis-Health and
Size Genetics clearly
demonstrate the correct
techniques. Lastly there
are penis pills, which
can have a great effect
and can increase the
size of the penis. It
all depends on what
penis pills you choose
as many are simply a rip
off. We recommend
ProSolution Pills, or
the innovative
ProEnhance trans-dermal
patch.
Obviously in some
situations, size can
make a difference, not
only in terms of the
quality of sex, but also
as far as the comfort
involved in the
relationship.
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